youwantmuchmore asked: With out any malice intent, I'm curious to know what you think of Beth Ditto as a public figure and notoriously fabulous larger woman.
I think she’s outstanding!! I met her a few years back and her speaking voice is just the sweetest thing and she was so warm and welcoming and I think, really stoked to see fatties at her show (which was in a really weird San Diego hotel for rich snobs and Brenda and I were the only fatties there)
I think she works really hard to be true to herself in a machine set out to destroy her and her look is super exciting to me
I also think that it’s probably a lot of fucking pressure to be seen as one of the ~only fatties making it for themselves (which is not true and that bums me out that the others aren’t as visible as Beth)
Beth being queer and femme was and still is really heartwarming and a source of strength for me
But, really…..please World, stop telling every single fat feminine person that they look like Beth or Adele. We’re begging you